Linkage

This month has been so jam-packed with the business of working and living and adjusting and near-missing (not to mention birthday-partying and laughing and roller-derbying), that I have neglected this website horrifically.

Please accept my apologies, and throw one in for writing extraordinarily long (yet not run-on) sentences, if you are of that persuasion.

Here are some links, for your perusal:

The latest Guerilla Mothering column, including ruminations on the upcoming 4th of July holiday:

So, what are we dealing with, if we push aside the fireworks and the political speeches? A holiday about freedom and 232 years of tradition. Now we’re back to watermelon. Nothing’s a better treat on a hot, steamy July day. But raised in Southern Indiana as I was, I’ve encountered numerous racist remarks about watermelon — and I hate that that was a part of my social education.

Read the rest here.

Chryssie Hynde (of the Pretenders, and well…of being Chryssie Hynde, for Pete’s sake) gives me advice on dealing with haters: Read it here.

Feeling like a twit? Follow me on twitter.

More serious about your business? Network online at LinkedIn. Add me as a contact–but if we’ve never met, please send me a note with your invite and let me know you’re a reader.

The Garmons keep on movin’

Current Magazine

Catch up with the Garmons of Wooded Glen, and read about how Norma Robbins refeathered her nest, in the latest Current.

Guerilla Mothering is back

Here’s the latest…

The Long and Winding Road Takes an Unexpected Turn

Just a little update from yours truly on mothering solo.

Hats off to Current, and other news

Life is starting to take on a new rhythm, so I’ve decided to update my poor, neglected writing blog with the latest cover of Current!

April 2009 Current

April 2009 Current

Learn more about where to find your free copy of Current here.

Last week I turned in the new stories for the next edition of Current, and I have to say, I really think the magazine does a good job of highlighting people from all walks of life around Southern Indiana. We’ve had sports legends, local fundraising gurus, political visionaries, small business owners, and each and every one of them have been your neighbors. As far as the homes go, they range from inherited homesteads to remodeled condos to restored mansions. The feature stories that fill out the magazine are exciting, as well. There’s one in the issue above about a Pomeranian with a prosthestic leg. I mean, c’mon. That just jerks at your heartstrings, you know?

Anyway, if you like where you live, pick up a copy of Current and get to know your neighbors in Southern Indiana a little better. If you *don’t* like Southern Indiana, pick up Current and you’ll find a few reasons why you should.

That’s just my opinion, anyway.

Speaking of opinions…mine is back. I turned in a column this week, and Guerilla Mothering is going live again. Yeehaw! Adventures in Single Motherhood, here we come.

If you’re curious about my opinions about writing, and interested in what others have to say about writing and the publishing life, tune into the Virtual Writers Conference, coming soon to VWC Blog. I’ll be sharing some pointers there to aspiring writers. (And you better bet I’m interested in what the novelists and agents have to say!)

While I would SO love to be the next JK Rowling, and I still am excited about working on Troll or Derby (my roller derby novel), in the meantime, I need to pick up some more work. If you know of someone who would love to have a talented writer/editor on board, I’m available on a freelance or part-time basis. Contact me re: my resume and availability. I’ve got supervisory experience, but I’m an excellent team player, as well, and I’m terrific working on my own. I’d even take an administrative job if it were a good place to work–I’m obviously not shy about answering the phone, and I type 90 wpm. Yeah, really.

Ideally, I’d like to find a regular writing/editing/PR gig. If it were part-time w/ benefits, or full-time and I could do two days a week at home, that would work, too. My rates are reasonable, and I’m sensible about compensation in this current economy. Just get in touch, or pass my name along, would ya?

Hope your Derby weekend was terrific. Mine truly was.

It’s good to be back.

update

Haven’t posted any links to my stuff lately because frankly I’ve been overwhelmed with life happening (what do you know, I actually did have other plans!).

Right now I’m going through a major change in family status, to use the HR term. I’m job-hunting, tending to my kids, and putting my life together. I’m tired as hell, but I’m happy about this. I’m at peace with it. It’s a positive step and I know the future is brighter than ever before. I’ll always cherish the memories and the hilarious moments from the past eight years of my life, and I’m glad to have had the opportunity to build my family with my former partner. We will still be partners at parenting, and he’s good at that, so no worries.

As far as work goes, I’m pretty versatile, and I’m open to a wide-range of options right now. I could work part-time or full-time, depending on the pay and the hours. I’ll have to deal with childcare for the first time in a few years, most likely. That’ll be something new.

If you know of any positions that involve social media, writing, editing, public relations, or marketing, those are my preferences. I do have an extensive background in accounting (auditing, specifically), tax, and public accounting. Small business was my middle name for years, and I’m always up for a challenge. I have some management chops. Good ones.

That’s what’s going on with me. How about you?

Don’t worry - be happy,

Leslea

Build positive memories during hard economic times

While we’re waiting for the economy to rise again, what do families do for kicks? Most moms I know don’t seem to be in a hurry to blow money by taking in attractions around town like they used to. Without the zoo, movies and even shopping trips, how do we keep our kids entertained? I wonder what my dad would have thought of that question.

My dad grew up during the Great Depression. His father was an electrician, and he fortunately worked throughout

the economic crisis, but there just wasn’t much money to go around. Even the families who had it relatively good were not living high on the hog — compared to today’s standards. Dad always seemed sad when he talked about it. Of course, coming of age during World War II and then raising a family in the 1950s, his childhood probably did seem grim, looking back. By the time I was born in the 1970s, the comparison must have seemed an impossible gulf between poverty and prosperity.

Read the rest, here.

Why is everyone harping on the OctoMom?

Sure, I think it’s weird, too, but why is it getting so much attention?

My recent Guerilla Mothering column on SuperMom vs. Suleman

Where *did* that come from?

Just found this blog entry, which is really enlightening!

It’s been awhile since I mentioned This Brilliant Darkness (TBD), my first novel. I’ve had it sitting, ripening, for awhile.

A friend suggested I think about doing it as a graphic novel. I’ve always kind of thought of it that way–lots of action and visuals, so I started looking into it.

Nothing’s finalized yet, but I may have someone to illustrate the first few pages, so I have something to present to an agent.

Now, I just have to get to work turning that first chapter or two into a script, so she has something to work with.

Really, I thought I would just keep working on Troll or Derby (ToD) until I got it polished, then I’d find an agent and publish it, and not pick up TBD until way after ToD was a success.

But right now I feel like I have the time and energy to work on both. If it all works out, I could be shopping TBD while I’m finishing up ToD.

And the next time I have overlapping projects, I’m going to name them so that the acronyms aren’t so damned close together.

Anyway…I’m excited. I’m blogging at MIDNIGHT. Feels good.

The new Current

It’s super-awesome!

Where to find Current.

How finding a writing job helps my novel along

Mike Geffner asked for guest blogs, and I told him I was actively searching for a writing/editing/PR job, and I could post about that if he’d like. He liked: Welcome to the Buyer’s Market–Where All my Buyer’s At?

Haven’t updated for awhile because I haven’t had many links to share. The N&T seems to have skipped one of my columns and I don’t want to post it unless/until they do first.

As for writing, as you’ll see in the link above where I’m guest-blogging on Mike Geffner’s blog, I’ve been looking around to see what’s out there in terms of jobs. I’d prefer something work-from-home, and to that end, I’ve had a couple of interviews, so I think I’m doing something right! We’ll see what happens. The latest position I interviewed for I def. do not want to jinx, so more on that later.

Other things I’ve been working on: writing every single day. It seems I DO write everyday, but I don’t always spend my alloted 15-30 min. on my novel. Why is it so hard to squeeze that time in? I really think I need to build a habit of writing every morning, but very serious things get in the way.

Take today, for instance. I have two sick kids. I planned on being at my local coffee shop deeply ensconced in an overstuffed armchair with a Black Currant tea (new fave!), my feet kicked up on the fireplace, putting away at:

1.) Chap 28 & 29 of Troll or Derby
2.) A list of Allergy Moms for a book project
3.) Turning in a freelance assignment for the N&T
4.) phone calls for Current

All of that would have been doable this morning, if I had dropped off the kids at school and been able to claim my usual spot at the coffee shop. But that didn’t happen, so I settled for working from home and getting my deadline work turned in.

When I get the above finished or (considering the aspect of writing the novel), in between current chapters, there are some other assignments/projects I want to get to, as well:

5.) book proposal for Complete Idiot’s Guide line of books
6.) reading through a non-fiction book-editing project and deciding if I can do the work for what they want to pay (I have a deadline for deciding this)
7.) an editorial I pitched to Joe Bob Briggs ages ago, that he told me to go ahead and write for The Door
8.) start thinking about what to submit to about five other outlets where I think it would behoove me to publish

I’m also thinking of another book project, that I don’t want to write too much about at this time.

There are tons and tons of things keeping me busy, work-wise.

The trade-off of finding a full-time job (or even a part-time job) is less time for all these projects–but less speculation, as well. Writing so much without getting paid is honestly not that motivating.

Doing some PR, social media stuff, blogging, promotion would be ideal work for me right now. It doesn’t detract from my energy for writing fiction, and it’s something that uses a different part of my skill set, and energizes me. That’s the kind of work I’m looking for, if I get my first pick. I’d like to be twittering/facebooking/blogging on behalf of something really awesome that I can get behind. Some organization or product/service that will make people say “Thanks for letting me know about this!”

It’s kind of like that movie where Christian Slater owns the flower store, and he delivers the flowers himself, because he likes seeing people smile. THAT’s the kind of social media/PR/promotional/advertising/marketing/whatever position I’d like to have. And I am totally capable, so we’ll see how it goes.

I’ve known so many writers who no longer have the energy to work on their own stuff because they write all day. I’ve found that having a desk to sit at (or an overstuffed coffee shop chair!), a routine, a schedule, some kind of order really helps me to fit my work in. Like my friend Barbara DeMarco-Barrett says in her book Pen on Fire, sometimes all it takes is knowing you’ve only got a few minutes–then you can really write productively. I’m okay with that.

For me, the trick is making a habit of using that fifteen minutes, and habits come with routines for me, personally. My routines seem to be tailored to my obligations. I’m a freelance writer, so I don’t go to an office and work 9-5. My biggest obligation on an everyday basis is taking my kids to and from school, so my writing falls around that schedule. Having floating deadlines and writing on a project-by-project basis is convenient, but doesn’t force me into a routine.

Am I saying I need to be forced into a box? Not exactly. I still want to work at home the coffee shop, if I can. I’d just like to have the obligation to perform–knowing I’m going to get paid and I need to earn that keep drives me to fit in all my work. That’s just how I work.

I think about this often–but it takes more than thinking to make something real come from it! Looking for an ongoing gig *in earnest* is a good move on my part. It’s a good move for my income, but most importantly, it’s a good move for my writing. With the exception of God & my family, there is nothing more important to me than that.